The Hookers!™

Looking to connect successfully?

This is who you should target!

Remember: Superior judgment trumps superior skills. See you here.

Select the other person and know the way they want to be treated.

Director Developer Results Inspirational

Persuader Appraiser Promoter Counselor

Specialist Investigator Agent Achiever

Practitioner Objective Thinker Perfectionist Enhancer



1. Director - ESTJ

Douchebag

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 12 - Achiever or 15 - Perfectionist.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are not scared of a problem and try to fix it. They like to protect their loved ones - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ESTJ = ISTP v INTP

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2. Developer - ENTJ

Bully

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 16 - Perfectionist or 12 - Achiever.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are enthusiastic and their commitments are important too. They are the leaders of a relationship where they can be honest and loyal - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ENTJ = INTP v ISTP

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3. Results - ESTP

Risktaker

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 13 - Practitioner or 14 - Objective Thinker.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are charming and can bring life to the relationship. They are generous and know how to commit to something - and that would for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ESTP = ISFJ v ISTJ

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4. Inspirational - ENTP

Arguing

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 10 - Investigator or 16 - Enhancer.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are happy to interact with others, debating and discussing intriguing ideas. They want their relationship to grow just like they want themselves to grow and improve - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ENTP = INFJ v INTJ

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5. Persuader - ENFJ

SJW leader

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 11 - Agent or 10 - Investigator.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are introverts who are able to spend time with each other and to enjoy themselves while I help an introvert to more easily participate in social events - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ENFJ = INFP v INFJ

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6. Appraiser - ESFJ

My friend

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 9 - Specialist or 11 - Agent.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are usually conscious about their social status and what others think. People appreciate their willingness to help and please others - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ESFJ = ISFP v INFP

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7. Promoter - ENFP

Unreliable

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 16 - Enhancer or 10 - Investigator.

ℌ Why is it so? These two can communicate well with humour and optimism. They are passionate lovers who are willing to make the relationship work - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ENFP - INTJ v INFJ

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8. Counselor - ESFP

Centre of attention

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 9 - Specialist or 11 - Agent.

ℌ Why is it so? These two go well. They value their personal relationships and they want others to feel comfortable. However, they sometimes do not pay enough attention to their own needs. They are usually popular and can manage money very well - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ESFP = ISFP v INFP.

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9. Specialist - ISFP

Arty Farty

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 6- Appraiser or 5 - Persuader.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are value-oriented and adaptable. Others like their value to respect one's personal space and enjoy seeing their affection done by acts and deeds - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ISFP = ESFJ v ENFJ

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10. Investigator - INFJ

Critical

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 4 - Inspirational or 7 - Promoter.

ℌ Why is it so? These two insist that perfection in the relationship is crucial. They would do all to have the ideal relationship but watch out for the money they spend to make it that way - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: INFJ = ENTP v ENFP

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11. Agent - INFP

Waste of space

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 5 - Persuader or 6 - Appraiser.

ℌ Why is it so? These two like to be understood by their partners. Partners are cared for and loved by the Agent - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: INFP = ENFJ v ESFJ

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12. Achiever - ISTP

Fix it

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 1 - Director or 2 - Developer.

ℌ Why is it so? These two like intensity and excitement and are going to get drawn to the Achiever. They can play hard to get but that is what makes them great - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ISTP = ESTJ v ENTJ

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13. Practitioner - ISFJ

Spineless

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 4 - Inspirational or 8 - Counselor.

ℌ Why is it so? These two might go for the boring Practitioner who is a listener and good at answering their duties. They are serious about their commitments but forget to value themselves enough - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ISFJ = ESTP v ESFP

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14. Objective Thinker - ISTJ

The rules

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 8 - Counselor or 4 - Inspirational.

ℌ Why is it so? These two can be loyal to their partners while honesty is a value to honour and respect. The the problem is they do not always seem to convey or implement these characteristics - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: ISTJ = ESFP v ESTP

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15. Perfectionist - INTP

The nerd

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 2 - Developer or 1 - Director.

ℌ Why is it so? These two are NTs which is why these are a good match. The Perfectionist, as the most intellectual, has other worlds in their head full of imagination. They love being intellectually stimulated - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: INTP = ENTJ v ESTJ.

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16. Enhancer - INTJ

Cold strategy

ℌ I attract the following as the most likely natural partners.

ℌ 7 - Promoter or 4 - Inspirational.

ℌ Why is it so? These two provide intelligence that is a charm to others. They can listen and optimize their relationship. However, the Enhancer is not usually good at expressing their feelings and can sound insensitive, but do not mean it - and that would be for me!

ℌ Kwik Formula™: INTJ = ENFP v ENTP

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You have the method
that works

If you are unsure of which person is in front of you:

Use the Chatty Cathy Method as your base

Assume the other person is in a conflict situation.

• Recognise their discomfort with conflict or loss of approval.
• State issue with facts, without criticism of them as a person; ask who questions if required.
• Limit their attempts to minimise problem or side-track the discussion; get back on the subject.
• Wrap up the discussion with a clear statement of what is going to happen, not tell them what to do and when. Affirm your relationship with them.