The Narc. Hates.
Your aim should be no or low contact forever, less one day.
Implement the following in defence and they will hate you. You learned this here.
1. Those who have self-worth.
A person who is unshakeable is hated by the Narc.
2. Those who tell the truth.
A person who does not play with half truths, lies and who recreates history is hated by the Narc.
3. Those who are independent thinkers.
A person who cannot be manipulated is hated by the Narc.
4. Those who possess compassion and empathy.
A person who is remains calm ('firm calmness' which we promote) and holds boundaries
is hated by the Narc.
5. Those who are confident snd self-assured.
A person who is confident and refuses to go beneath others' cruelty is hated by the Narc.
6. Those who set firm boundaries.
A person who says 'no' and keeps themself safe is hated by the Narc.
7. Those who forgive and then walk away.
A person who humiliates the Narc. with dignity is hated by the Narc.
8. Taking responsibility or criticism.
This concept is alien. They loathe explanations that contain facts, conditions and
circumstances.
9. Not respecting others' ideas.
If you put anything out there, they will immediately reply, no way, usually in a
rude or dismissive manner. Within seconds, they will throw out the exact same idea
and claim it as their own brilliant idea.
10. Being transparent.
They create a false reality for themselves, particularly on the Internet.
They create a version of a perfect life, successful and happy and want other
people to buy into this fantasy including non existent achievenments. (Rewriting history)
11. Accepting their own mistakes.
They cannot take responsibility for a problem or mistake, regardless of how clear it is that
they messed up. They put the responsibility on others.
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