Treat by Pattern - Specific Treatment - Q1 LARRY™
This page details specific items to watch out for.
Use these to tailor your approach as you know the other person's behaviour pattern.
This page is for - Q1 LARRY™.
Remember: Superior judgment trumps superior skills. See you here.
Treat the other person the way they want to be treated.
Pattern 1 - Director - ESTJ
Nick Off Nickname™: The Prick of a Prefect.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 1: Aggressive, demanding and overbearing.
While Virtue is Serenity; Nota Bene: Vice is Chaos.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 2: The me-me monkey. "Ok, so you do this and you do that. Let me just sit here and take all the credit, ok?"
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 3: The uptight, blunt and calculating twat who probably needs to get laid. No fun. The control freak.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 4. Donor and Donee of Arslikhan™: Dr: No strong desire to go about flattering others. De: Use conflict rather than being subservient.
Rue de Remarques™: Totally rude because they judge you a lot.
Character: Self-righteous. Dresses to impress. Their way only. The original see you next Tuesday. Loathed by most. Takes legal action against you at the drop of a hat. Either prone to road rage or a back seat driver.
Inbuilt Wisdom™: How to embody determination.
Piss Off Guarantee™ - say: "Stop telling the teacher about the homework".
At the airport, I get there three hours prior to boarding in case the lines are long; which they are not.
Dramatic Narrative™: Practical, realistic, decisive, matter-of-fact. Moves quickly to implement decisions. Organizes projects and people to get things done. Focuses on getting results in the most efficient way possible. Takes care of routine details. Has a clear set of logical standards. Systematically follows standards and want others to do the same. Mega forceful in implementing their plans.
Never do this - we know: Do not have them lose control. Not of the project, not of the meeting and definitely not of their tear ducts, rage or that horrible choked-up feeling that makes their voice sound as if it is being strangled by a musical wind instrument. That will make them feel exposed and vulnerable. Never place them in the situation when they make a snap decision that is likely to turn out to be a total clusterfcuk! Remember, they are your local douchebag - the loathed bureaucrat.
Pattern 2 - Developer - ENTJ
Nick Off Nickname™: The Bossy Son of a Bitch.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 1: Domineering, bossy and abrasive.
While Virtue is Altruism; Nota Bene: Vice is Avarice.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 2: "Hey look at this poisonous spider. It's okay, it doesn't bite. I'll let it out and watch it crawl up your arm and prove to you that it doesn't bite. Oh oops, I'm wrong. Haha. You'll be fine. I'm sorry though."
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 3: The ruthless and megalomaniacal manager. The heartless dictator. The bully.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 4. Donor and Donee of Arslikhan™: Dr: Knows how to dish out compliments to go about flattering others. De: Uses conflict rather than being subservient.
Rue de Remarques™: Totally rude because they always say what they think.
Character: Unyielding. Bully. Will run you over if you are a threat. Either prone to road rage or a back seat driver.
Inbuilt Wisdom™: How to achieve far-reaching future goals.
Piss Off Guarantee™ - say: "You are not a mastermind; you are a teenager yelling at strangers on the Internet about your 3000+ IQ".
At the airport, I am a member of all lounges and FF programs.
Dramatic Narrative™: Frank, decisive, assumes leadership readily. Quickly sees illogical and inefficient procedures and policies. Develops and implements comprehensive systems to solve organizational problems. Enjoys long-term planning and goal setting. Usually well informed, well read, enjoys expanding their knowledge and passing it on to others. Mega forceful in presenting their ideas.
Never do this - we know: They want to lead a meeting, negotiate a contract, and organize a hostile takeover before lunch. But if they start crying in front of you? Do not continue. Be aware that they are emotionally constipated in that high-functioning way where feelings get filed under “Later” and then never dealt with until a minor inconvenience unlocks a full-blown breakdown. If you are the one crying? Good luck. Do not do that. They care but their version of comforting someone often sounds like a confused sports coach trying to cheer up a sobbing toddler. Remember, they are your local bully - the evil overlord.
Pattern 3 - Results - ESTP
Nick Off Nickname™: The Sporting Oaf.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 1: Manipulative, superficial and insincere.
While Virtue is Chastity; Nota Bene: Vice is Nymphomania.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 2: "Let me just point out all your faults and make you feel bad about yourself because it's so much fun."
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 3: The insensitive coked up stockbroker (e.g. Jordan Belfort). Does exactly what they want. The reckless.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 4. Donor and Donee of Arslikhan™: Dr: Great at flattering others especially as they are charming and social. De: Less outwardly conforming but not necessarily dismissive.
Rue de Remarques™: Totally rude because they are not thinking about others' feelings.
Character: Insincere. Good in a crisis. Ultra high risktaker. Accidentally will try to race an undercover cop or goes over the limit.
Inbuilt Wisdom™: How to be fearless.
Piss Off Guarantee™ - say: "No more parties; no more Kardashians and no more Instagram".
At the airport, I am upset that I have to empty my drink bottle that is actually vodka.
Dramatic Narrative™: Flexible and tolerant. Takes a pragmatic approach focused on immediate results. Bored by theories and conceptual explanations. Wants to act energetically to solve the problem. Focuses on the here and now, is spontaneous, enjoys each moment they can be active with others. Enjoys material comforts and style. Learns best through doing.
Never do this - we know: They usually walk through life like they own the room with confidence as their default setting. Embarrassment? Rare. But not impossible - avoid that. They will circuit if you catch them off guard with their own emotions. Especially tears. They hate that. Do not show up uninvited, makes their voice crack and reminding them that they are not a robot is horrifying. Do not embarrass and make them misunderstood in a situation when they mean to do something nice for someone and it is taken the wrong way. Remember, they are your local risktaker - the go getting conman.
Pattern 4 - Inspirational - ENTP
Nick Off Nickname™: The Untrustworthy Rapscallion.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 1: Manipulative and deceptive.
While Virtue is Sincerity; Nota Bene: Vice is Insincerity.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 2: "I'm perfect. Admit it."
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 3: The manic and grossly argumentative asshole. Argues against anything that you say. The untrustworthy.
Get rid of Compelling Reasons™ 4. Donor and Donee of Arslikhan™: Dr: Surprisingly charming and flattering people when they want to be. De: Less outwardly conforming but not necessarily dismissive.
Rue de Remarques™: Totally rude because they do not care whom they offend.
Character: Provocative or extreme persona. Sneaky. Machiavellian. Prone to road rage or goes over the limit.
Inbuilt Wisdom™: How to turn tradition on its head.
Piss Off Guarantee™ - say: "No, you cannot have my lunch money".
At the airport, I upset all passengers with my loud and crying infant.
Dramatic Narrative™: Quick, ingenious, stimulating, alert and outspoken. Resourceful in solving new and challenging problems. Adept at generating conceptual possibilities and then analyzing them strategically. Good at reading other people. Bored by routine, will seldom do the same thing the same way again, apt to turn to one new interest after another.
Never do this - we know: They can be a challenge to embarrass. They ae usually ten steps ahead in a conversation, spinning webs of ideas and sarcasm but, sometimes, they trip over the fine print. They just hate being caught unprepared. Do not put them in that position. Their whole identity is built on always having something clever to say next. Remember, they are your local untrustworthy guy - the mad scientist.